Showing posts with label Discipleship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Discipleship. Show all posts

Wednesday, 4 December 2019

Review – A Biblical Theology of Youth Ministry


Earlier this year I received a Facebook notification pointing me to a review of A Biblical Theology of Youth Ministry by MikeMcGarry. I read the review and bought the book. Now I wish I could buy a bundle more to give to others. Here are five reasons you should read this book if you are in pastoral ministry (not just if you’re a youth leader).

1.       It teaches us what the Old Testament has to say about young people in the faith community


To appreciate what we find about ministry to youth in the Bible has a whole, we need to step back from our current understanding of youth ministry. This is particularly so when we read the Old Testament. McGarry writes, “There is no verse that explicitly commands youth ministry, but the family and the community’s mandate to raise up the next generation in the fear and obedience of the Lord is overwhelming.” (p19)

This chapter leads us through some history and some texts that make clear what happens when the faith isn’t passed on to the next generation, and the Biblical imperatives to make sure it is. And when we as parents feel overwhelmed in this task, he reminds us that the task belongs to the whole community of faith.

“Parents are consistently affirmed as the primary disciple-makers of their children, but the Psalmist’s example clearly shows the commitment of the community to the young.” (p30,31) You can read Psalm 71:18 and 78:1-8 to see what he means.

2.       It teaches us what the New Testament has to say about young people in the faith community

  
McGarry picks up the theme of discipleship in this section. In no way does he contradict what he sees in the OT as the role of the family and community in teaching the beliefs and standards of faith. Instead he tightens the focus a little recognising that this is now the other side of the crucifixion and resurrection and now all Christians have a Messiah to follow. So we are to be disciples of Jesus no matter who our human teacher might be.

One interesting aspect McGarry raises is the age of the disciples. Perhaps they were young adults who Jesus trained and through them he has changed the world. How much do you expect of young adults today?

The place of children and youth in the life of the early church is also raised here, and that’s important today because of the place – or lack of place – that this age group has in the faith community. Paul wrote letters to churches and clearly believed the children would hear what he had written. This means that these age groups would be together. (But I’m jumping ahead of myself here.)

“Rather than viewing children and youth as ‘members in waiting,’ the biblical witness consistently affirms their value and reflects a shared commitment by the community of faith toward the next generation. Pastors and Christian leaders today who overlook the young are in blatant disregard of the biblical pattern of ministry.” (p56)

3.       It shows the place of youth in the faith community


Following from the previous point, have a look at Titus 2:2-6

2 Teach the older men to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love and in endurance. 3 Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God. 6 Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled.
See the different age groups mentioned there? Older men; older women; younger women; young men. You can also look at Ephesians 5:22-6:9 and see the age groups listed there and realise that when the letter was read to the church, all these age groups were together. Is your church like this?

McGarry doesn’t have to work hard to show what the Bible is teaching about the place of youth in the faith community – it’s where they belong.

“Christians are the people of God, and there is no age restriction mentioned.” (p87)

“When each member is serving the head of the Church with their individual gifts, the members are united together through the bond of Christian fellowship as the body of Christ works in harmony.” (p89)

How are the youth of your community of faith using their gifts?

4.       It shows the importance of the community in the faith of youth



McGarry quotes Wayne Rice, co-founder of Youth Specialties. It’s uncomfortable, but worth hearing:
“I have all the respect in the world for youth workers in the church, but I’ve become more and more convinced over the years that God never gave t youth workers the responsibility for making disciples of other people’s kids. . . What we have today is not really a youth ministry problem. It’s a church problem. Truth is – it has always been a church problem.” (p73. Emphasis his)

It’s really easy for me to complain about the youth in our church, or to blame the parents when the youth leave. But in reality, that’s just a cop out. If I’m part of that church, then I’m invested in the spiritual life of that child. If that teenager leaves, do I even notice? Do I know his name? Do I know what she is doing at uni? Or have I assumed that’s the youth leader’s job.

The biblical model of church life doesn’t put the young people in one room while the adults are in another room. Instead the biblical model of church life is an inter-generational one with all ages sharing life and worship together. McGarry comments, “ . . . the entire church shares a commitment to nurture the faith of the next generation while seeking opportunities to involve them in the rhythms of the church.’ (p88)

(I’m not suggesting that the age groups can’t have time on their own. That’s valuable. But don’t let that be all they do.)

5.       It encourages me to see the catechism in a very different light


I’ve been involved in promoting the catechism for a few years now, but reading this book has challenged me to see it in a completely different light. You see I’ve always understood that the purpose of the catechism was for parents, and particularly the father, to use this list of questions and answers to teach the children. I expect I’m not alone in this thought. McGarry points back to Luther and comments that in the catechism Luther provided a resource whereby the parents received doctrinal instruction even as they taught their children. (p62)

I nearly dropped the book when I read this. One of my concerns about using the catechism is that it expects parents to understand the doctrines of Christian faith, and maybe they don’t. But now I can see it is possible that in using the catechism consistently, both the parents and the children are being instructed in faith. Brilliant!

He also comments on the place of the church to support and equip parents in this task.

“Parents were the primary disciplers of their children, but the church leaders were the primary spiritual leaders of the family.” (p63)

I wish I’d written this book.


Some years ago a bloke I know held up a book and said to me, “This is the book I wish I had written.” I feel much the same about McGarry’s work. A Biblical Theology of Youth Ministry will be a great encouragement to those involved in youth ministry, it’s true. But more importantly, I think it’s a book that should be read by elders and pastors as they take the responsibilities given to them.

At 164 pages, it’s not a long book. Get it and read it.


Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Some key women in my life

Today is International Women's Day. As such it seems a good time to consider who have been some of the key women in my life and the impact they have made.

Like most people, I need to start with my mum. She is a woman who has often done more than a mother should do for her son. A fair chunk of my homework in primary school comes to mind. She cooked for us, and bought our clothes. She often had to clean my room if anyone was going to ever see the carpet, and if I could go back in time, I think I would do better on that front. She has been, all in all, a great and wonderful mum, and I love her dearly.

Importantly, she has also been a key influence on my understanding of what it means to be a follower of Jesus. She was the one who helped us to pray at the dinner table (step up, Dad!), who taught in Sunday School and later with the teenage crew. When I was young, she was deeply involved in life within our church at Hawthorn and I learned what it meant to be committed to the church. (Dad did a good job with that too.)

But here's something else. I remember that the teenagers from our church would often meet at our place after church on Sunday night, and while Mum was cooking pikelets she would often be talking to some of the young women of the church. This was informal discipleship taking place.

I love my mum deeply.

My two grandmothers would also stand out in my mind. My maternal grandmother, Grandma, suffered a heart attack (I think) while I was young and came to stay with us for a while. It was kind of cool having that older generation in the house for a while. Sadly, a massive stroke changed her life and took away her ability to speak clearly. This meant she couldn't talk with us and the frustration on her face was easy to see. But I still remember her smile. And I remember her love. And I remember her serving Jesus faithfully.

My paternal grandmother, Nanna, was the longest living of my grandparents. My Pa died when I was 10, (I have some happy memories of him and his wheelbarrow) and this naturally meant life changed dramatically for Nanna. But she became a powerful witness in our church. This church moved from Hawthorn to Waverley in 1987, and I can still see my Nanna, no matter how frail she became, determined to make sure that she would welcome any visitor that came to our church. And it was a reasonably large church, so it would often mean there were a number of people to meet.

She didn't let her frailty stop her. She served Jesus faithfully.

There are other women who I could name, but it would make this too long. Two women need to be mentioned, and then a final name.


Carolyn Everett was our Sunday School leader when I was a child. One Sunday, while she was leading our Sunday School, she invited any of us who wanted to ask Jesus to be their special friend, (language which made perfect sense in the 70's) to come and kneel at the mercy seat. I did. Carolyn and her family were a huge part of my life as a boy, and as a teenager. Carolyn showed her love for Jesus in her love for the people, and especially for the children.

Muriel Davies was a quiet follower of Jesus. Her husband, Howard, was a huge influence on my understanding of ministry, of preaching, and of theology. While Howard and Muriel were our Corps Officers (ministers) a group of youth leaders would meet at their home once a week for a meal and a discussion. In opening her home to us, she modelled hospitality and a gentle witness. It may not have seemed much, but it stands in my mind.

Finally, and in many ways most importantly, is my beautiful and wonderful wife Anne. This year we celebrate 25 years of marriage. We don't have a house, but we have a home, and Anne is greatly responsible for this. We have had times in our life when we have been broke - truly. But Anne was able to take a few ingredients and make it something that was not only edible, but also tasty. She has been a great mum to our sons as they have grown into young men. She has served Jesus with me in many places. She has helped to move house too many times, and has done this cheerfully. (which continually amazes me.)

And in my darkest times, she is there. Smiling, giving space, encouraging, loving and all those good things. But most important, she is there.

I have been blessed to have great women involved in my life. I thank God for them all, too many of whom are unnamed in this blog.

Who has influenced you?