5.
Porn is a sin against your wife (p28)
Studies of women
married to porn users have found it has a devastating impact: ‘effects such as
fatigue, changes in appetite and libido, and other signs and symptoms of
anxiety and depression, including suicidality’.
How does she feel?
·
Am I the
reason he uses porn? (I’m not attractive enough)
·
He
doesn’t care about me. (If he love me, he wouldn’t hurt me this way)
·
The
relationship is a farce (We pretend it’s fine, but the relationship is sick)
You will start to
view sex with your wife not as the celebration of your love, but as re-enacted
porn.
If you’re not yet
married, porn is a sin against your
future wife. You’re already
committing adultery against a wife with whom you’re not even yet married. . .
and you’re gifting the devil a reservoir of temptation to use against you.
“I’ll stop when I
get married” Using porn is a bad way of
preparing not to use it when you are married.”
6.
Porn wrecks families (p31)
There is NO truth to
the saying ‘It doesn’t hurt anyone’. It hurts families
Porn is a cancer,
eating away at your marriage and your enjoyment of marriage.
“Porn wrecks
marriages.” That’s the conclusion of divorce lawyer Marcia Maddox. Among the
five lawyers in her office, there’s always a case involving pornography being
worked on at any given time.
56% of divorce cases involved one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites
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“Because of pornography, I was aware that mom was not the
only woman you were looking at. I became acutely aware of your wandering eye when
we were out and about. This taught me that all men have a wandering eye and
can’t be trusted. I learned to distrust and even dislike men for the way they
perceived women in this way.”
Porn endangers
children. If it’s at home, it’s likely
to be found. And what impact does it have on the kids if they discover dad
looking at porn.
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